First of all, let’s get one thing clear: We are not taking you to Grenada (gre-NAY-da), the small eastern Carribbean island nation — famously invaded by the U.S. in 1983 — where a man was arrested just this year for having consensual gay sex. On the contrary, this article is about gay-friendly Granada (gra-NAH-da), the hip, vibrant metropolis of about a quarter million, descended from an amalgam of peoples who didn’t always initially cohabitate well but eventually found ways to merge into the city’s uniquely simpático modern Granadian culture.